Apollo Beach, FL — Kaitlyn Elizabeth Bengivenga, age 33, passed away suddenly on May 7, 2026. Born on July 17, 1992, at Hunterdon Medical Center in Flemington, New Jersey, she brought immense light and joy into the world from the very beginning.
Kaitlyn spent her formative years growing up in Washington, New Jersey, where she attended Warren Hills Regional High School, forming enduring bonds and memories. In 2020, she relocated to Apollo Beach, Florida, establishing a beautiful home and community for herself and her family.
An extraordinarily creative soul, Kaitlyn found great pleasure in scrapbooking and crafting, meticulously preserving memories with love and artistry. Above all else, her true passion and ultimate joy in life lay in her children. She dedicated her heart entirely to them, eagerly participating in a wide variety of activities and embracing every precious moment they shared together. Her warmth, vibrant spirit, and fierce devotion as a mother will forever remain her signature legacy.
Kaitlyn’s memory will be eternally treasured by her cherished children, Thomas Royce, age 9, and Jocelyn Noelle, age 8. She is the deeply loved daughter of Joseph and Kelly Bengivenga, and the beloved sister of Matthew Ward and Joshua Bengivenga.
She is further survived by her devoted grandmother, Linda Hoppock; her uncle and aunt, Ralph and Cathleen Bengivenga; her uncles, William Stadtmueller and Bruce Stadtmueller; and a large, loving circle of many cousins and lifelong friends who were blessed to know her.
Kaitlyn joins in eternal rest her paternal grandparents, Ralph and Loretta Bengivenga; her maternal grandfather, Larry Hoppock; her brother, Joseph Bengivenga Jr.; and her uncle, Donald Bengivenga, all of whom passed before her.
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I am still in shock to hear the news of Kaitlyn’s passing. My heart hurts for your family, I cannot imagine a loss of this altitude. All of my interactions with Kaitlyn left me seeing how genuine of a person she was. I was proud to at one point, to call your family a family of my own. I am so grateful to have had you all in my life, and it wouldn’t have been the same without Kaitlyn. I love you all, my thoughts and prayers are with you and her children.
Kaitlyn was and always will be my baby sister. Throughout life growing up, we were inseparable. She was like my sidekick and my shadow. She was always there. Growing up with her wasn’t always sunshine and rainbows though. We had sibling battles, like most siblings do. We were always there for each other no matter what. We played with Barbie dolls and G.I. Joe action figures. We dreamed big. Kaitlyn and I had nicknames for each other. I called her Taterz and she called me Meatball. We also share the same favorite colors, which are, blue, purple, and pink. Without my sister, I feel lost. God called her home too soon. But I know she will always be in my heart, and her spirit will live on through her children, my nephew and my niece, Thomas and Jocelyn. Taterz, I will forever love you and I will forever miss you. I will keep your memory alive.
Always, your brother,
Meatball.
Kelly and Joe, I’m sorry for lost of your beautiful daughter. My condolences to you and your family. Sending prayers and hugs to u and your family.
Dearest Kelly and family, Deeply and sincerely sorry for your loss. May you find comfort and rest.
Sincerely, Eva.
I am extremely sad to hear this. I was Kaitlyn’s nurse many times and it was always my pleasure. She stayed so positive and strong despite the extreme condition she had to endure. I loved her as a friend. I enjoyed every second with her , even in her hardest times. She listened to me too. I’m so sorry Kaitlyn, you didn’t deserve this. God bless your children , I heard so much about them.
I’m just so sorry 😞
Growing up with Katie was such a blessing . She wasn’t just a neighbor I grew up next to She was the best non biological big sister I ever had. Always being there to watch out for me and my sisters in tough times . I love you Katie and I hope you know how loved you were.